When to Accept and Move On

by: Adam Beasley

We all do it. We blame others for the bad things that happen to us. Whether you didn't get the job or promotion you wanted or something else went wrong, it's easy to blame others. Many times things go wrong and the worse thing you can do is blame others for it. It won't fix the issue you have and it certainly won't get you a job. Sometimes you just have to accept some of the blame for yourself and move on.

First, you have to realize what blames are holding you back. Blaming feels good. But whether you are right or wrong, you have to realize that it's best to recognize what the problem is and move on. What are you getting caught on? How can you fix it?

Secondly, you have to come up with a way to fix it. If you didn't get a job you really wanted then you have to figure out how you are going to get the next job that comes along. Stewing on the past will leave you stagnant and not doing any work, which gets you nowhere. The way to success lies in the plan that you construct to help you get out of this situation.

Thirdly, you can't give up. Keep trying even when it seems like all is lost. Finding a job or fixing a problem is usually not easy. If it was easy then it wouldn't be a problem. Know that these situations are what will put you ahead of your competition because you will know how to deal with a multitude of situations. So keep your head up because it can be the key to your success.